Monday, October 7, 2013

ADVICE TO WOMEN FROM A WOMAN...


This is a piece from a woman, she wanted to give advice to all the women she could reach and am supposed to upload it verbatim (as is) so here goes....

“If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.” “Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.” “Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.” “If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think ‘it will get better.’ You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.” “Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?” “Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.” “You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.” “He is a man; nothing more, nothing less.” “Never let a man define who you are.” “Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.” “A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.” “All men are NOT dogs.” “You should not be the one doing all the bending–compromise is a two-way street.” “If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t ‘be friends.’ A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle.” “The only person you can control in a relationship is you.” “Always have your own set of friends separate from his” “Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.” “Don’t ever make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or a better job.” “Do not make him into a quasi-god.” "The only man that's exceptional to this write-up is the one who puts a ring on your finger" Hi gorgeous, you are pretty. Pretty as your name. You know it, clap your hands. This is a toast to you, for the man who has you, and the losers who lost you. Lucky are the dudes who are going to meet you.

And i'll talk to y'all again soon (personally)
               Your Friend 
         Chrisking Leonhart

2 comments:

  1. Really don't know if I should be dissapointed or amazed at this post. Women might read this and act up based on what is on here not considering that this is from another's mind,probably written cos it's what they are wishing to hear. Granted,some of the things here are plausible while others are just some westernized BS. Oh well, the bottom line is that u can choose to be secretive,untrustworthy,insecure,obnoxious,hard headed and uptight or slam your doors on useless side talks and go live a life. Make those mistakes or learn from other's mistakes and not reading,assimilating and incorporating jargons that even the said person dat is advising u wouldn't even touch.

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